Wanita Hari Ini 26 Mei 2009

Actually, whether Akhil Hayy is in love with Waheeda ‘Wassini’ is none of my business.

But what I am concerned about is the fact that Akhil is supposed to be  the role-model of Islam in Malaysia. No doubt he has done a lot but people will point out the mistakes rather than the achievements.

If he has no relationship with Waheeda, then he should stay away from her, at least in public. Words and actions must come together for it to be believed. He says he has nothing to do with her, yet he mysteriously takes her as his ‘wife’ in his TV show. And he chose her after this gossip surfaced. Why? Before this, his show was already doing well without her. Plus, there are a lot more options of ‘pious woman’ for him to choose from. Why her, of all people?

If he actually has, then be a man. Confess, and accept your responsibilities, now that everything is out in the open. Polygamy in Islam is a beautiful thing. It keeps a woman’s dignity and honour intact, by relationship through a legal marriage. If you have married her, or going to, I wish you happiness. But don’t neglect your responsibility to your first wife and kids. You won’t be at the top forever. She (your first) married you (I’m assuming) before you were famous.  One day you will fall, and when that day comes,  chances are, the ones who will help you get up again will be the ones who were with you when you were still a nobody.